February 24, 2011

MAKE IT LIKE A BUSINESS...

We go through life haven been trained for whatever role/position we acquired or by default gained. We can go to work and train to be the best that we can be, or get trained to be a successful student. Is it then possible to train women/men to properly be in a relationship? Can we train to LOVE?

2 comments:

  1. I don't think you can train for love, but i do think you can train for a role in a relationship

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  2. i think we are trained on what and how to love. For example, my parents were married all my life. They fought over everything from money to how fast/slow the other was driving. But i also knew that they loved each other VERY much. idk how, but i cud just tell there was alot of love btwn them and my dad still loves my mom to this day, and the Lord took her home almost 2 yrs. ago. and he STILL wears his wedding band. And thats the type of love that i want for my relationship. im trying to model that in most aspects of my relationship. so yes, i was trained how/what love is/was/will be. Consequently, if theres a relationship where abuse is involoved, children can see that as "love" as well if the mom (or dad) stayed in it. They grow up and think that THAT is what love is (not in ALL cases, but some cases). So can we be trained to love, not really u either do or u dont... but can we be trained HOW/WHAT/WHOM to love, absolutely.

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