Almost every little girl grows up thinking of the man she will marry and spend the rest of her life with. Because of this women subconsciously go into relationship looking to find "Mr.Right". She thinks of how he treats her, his goals, career, education, etc. A lot of men feel intimidated by this action, so should women be more self aware and not approach relationships in this manor? Or are they right to do so?
Would it make a difference if many more men adapt this method women use?
I feel like it's what YOU have to bring to the table. He has to be able to match it or be above and beyond it. A real MAN HAS REALISTIC goals, a career, education, a JOB, etc and is secure enough to not feel intimidated when a woman asks those things about him. It's only (in my experience) those boys who don't have those things who are intimidated when they try ta talk to you and those questions come up. It's not about finding Mr. Right, it's about KNOWING YOUR WORTH! And you deserve THE WORLD!!!
ReplyDeletelets establish one thing not every girl thought of marriage or dreamed of their wedding day when they were little. Often times men enter into partnerships with pre-conceived notions that women are in a complete rush to marry and pop out babies, and truth is there are women out there who are as scared of marriage as most men. I do think that some women shove the idea of "marriage" too quickly, but in some cases men need to be more sympathetic to the fact that a womens clock does tick.....lol So women do have the right to approach the situation in that manner in many cases. If many men did adapt to the methods women use, i do believe that relationships would be held at a higher caliber that it is now.
ReplyDeleteclocks do tick, and if a womens ultimate goal with a man is to get married and have children, then thats how she should approach the situation. Honestly, from now on i'm personally not going to stay with a man for more than a year if he is not ready and willing to marry me in the near future. i have no time for games, especially if i'm putting in time and effort...two things i like to spend on myself
ReplyDeleteI believe its only men that aren't ready for something serious that play these games. Women state what they want in the beginning and if the guy gets scared off from it just means he wasn't the one for u, but if he is still around and does something similar then 9 times out of 10 this person maybe on the same playing field as u. I say keep approaching relationships this way and weed out the undeserving ones, this shows standards and growth as an individual.
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