Sexual experimentation is a part of EVERYONE'S psyche (whether they want to admit it or not). Sex, from what my psych books tell me, is an expression of passion that two people share. When a 3rd person is introduced I think it takes away from the intimacy and can cause serious problems. I think it's more trouble than it's worth.
I think people forget the real meaning behind a serious healthy relationship. Threesome to me is so immature and not intimate. me being a conservative, would never think of it, if he really wants it then he gotta find another girl first.
well.. to counter everyone's point for a second, while a relationship is meant to be between two people, can we honestly say that we've NEVER bought another person into the relationship by discussing details with friends or even askin for advice? I think all relationships are more than just two people once you involve others in any instance.. but sexually speaking, I don't think its necessary, so long as both parties communicate wants, needs, and desires.. and if its requested, you should ask why..
Sexual experimentation is a part of EVERYONE'S psyche (whether they want to admit it or not). Sex, from what my psych books tell me, is an expression of passion that two people share. When a 3rd person is introduced I think it takes away from the intimacy and can cause serious problems. I think it's more trouble than it's worth.
ReplyDeleteI think people forget the real meaning behind a serious healthy relationship. Threesome to me is so immature and not intimate. me being a conservative, would never think of it, if he really wants it then he gotta find another girl first.
ReplyDeleteI wouldn't introduce having sex with someone besides me, in my relationship. its supossed to be just us two, that applies to sex as well
ReplyDeletewell.. to counter everyone's point for a second, while a relationship is meant to be between two people, can we honestly say that we've NEVER bought another person into the relationship by discussing details with friends or even askin for advice? I think all relationships are more than just two people once you involve others in any instance.. but sexually speaking, I don't think its necessary, so long as both parties communicate wants, needs, and desires.. and if its requested, you should ask why..
ReplyDeleteHere's the thing people always talk about having the best of both worlds. Could you satisfy the idea/need/want if you invited someone else in?
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