February 10, 2011
WHITE LIE MAYBE?
Often in many situations relationships flaw when needed information are not told. In the beginning would be the best time to spill everything out so that it wont resurface later. Should you say anything even though you may think it is irrelevant? Or is there a time limit to expose the truth?
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In my opinion, there is a time and a place for everything. Topics like future goals, current events (personal), marital status, likes, dislikes, etc... should ALL be discussed on a first date... sexual deviences (did I spell that right? lol) or preferences, past loves, last STD/HIV shots/tests/results, things of that nature need not to be discussed until after you've decided when/if you want to go out with them again. And when it comes to those things, honesty is the best policy.
ReplyDeleteSince everything happened before the relationship, no one is really required to spill everything out, unless they know it is so important like having a kid or something that could affect their relationship. Honestly is the best key. A lie would never justify anything but sometimes there's a better time and place to have it discussed. Some things cant be discussed on the first date cause it'll ruin it so it's better to have the person know you more for who you are then you could spill the rest.
ReplyDeleteBeing in a relationship requires that you get to know your partner and understand them on every level. With that said you should pick your spots on when you chose to open up about certain situations in your life. Timing is everything. The deeper the bond the more your reveal. Your partner may not be ready to hear or understand what you have to say. As long as it does not harm your partner physically you should take your time opening up your deepest feelings.
ReplyDeleteI believe that you should tell whatever you think they should know or what they need to know in a relationship that wouldn't cause any problems in the future
ReplyDeleteHow do you figure what is important for a person to know off back? I think it should be broken into sections. For example when you first meet someone you should automatically state your current relationship status and intentions. I also think past relationships if related should also be stated. Then like later when you have established that you want to go further you can talk about family stuff and other more personal topics. Often to much people have the explanations that if they didn't ask you shouldn't tell, and as much as I don't like it its true.
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